女权主义者的性欲观（读书笔记：杰茜卡瓦伦蒂：《正面全裸的女权主义》）作者直接感到，女权主义者都是些身穿男人西装剪着汉子发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人，直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。今后才精晓过来，原本女权主义者也许有七情六欲的！不仅仅如此，她们的欲望比经常女子更直接，更加强势，更自私。瓦伦蒂用了任何四个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干这事（以及别的关于性的升迁）FEMINISTS DO IT BETTE奥德赛 (AND OTHELacrosse SEX TIPS)》。她开宗明义就自己炫人眼目“作者在床面上比你行，而那得归功于女权主义。”(I'm better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)今世父权社会对女子有一种自相争论的双重标准：一方面，女生在光天化日领受“守贞教育”，晚上则在电视机上收看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面，女孩被辅导说婚前性行为是畸形的，另一方面又告诉你，你若想成为一名春假辣妹，你火速对着镜头宽衣解带吧！(When you're getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone Wild commercials at night, it's not exactly easy to develop a healthy sexuality. You're taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you'd better start making out for the camera.)守贞教育家是那般来教育女子的：“你们的肉体就是一根棒棒糖。当你们与情人爆发性关系时，他剥去你的伪装，含吮起来。那时或然觉获得不错，可可惜的是，他与您完事后，你们留给下一个人伴侣的就是衣冠不整，口水臭味的流毒。”("Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but unfortunately, when he's done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. ")够耸人传说的。不过女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提出的口号是：“笔者的处女膜我做主！(Our Hymens, Ourselves )”她说：“笔者未曾闹明白处女贞操有啥样大不断，真的。小编的贞节在中学时代就被一名男票没怎么费事就夺去了。大家后来还约会了一点年呢。小编还以为会有哪些特别的痛感吧，未有。作者总觉得这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉壹回事很工巧。所以你能够虚拟，当自家开掘本身原来是被用过即弃的污物时有多愕然。”(I have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity. Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel different—I didn't. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was just a used-up piece of trash without it.)笔者相比纳闷的是，女权主义者总体上是置之不顾男士的。但是在拍卖本身的情欲时，她们对男生的情态明朗又是另一番景观。诚然，她们与老头子上床，再亦非为了投其所好相公，更不是为着薪火相传，而纯粹是为着自身的高兴。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话，正是：一边做女权主义者，一边滚床单！(f***ing while feminist ！)只是，面临一人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴，哪一个人小男生消受得起？
A lot of words want to tell you .I do did something wrong .But I really think you misunderstood me a lot.And want to make something clearly.
As I look back on my experiences, it’s interesting to reflect on how my perspectives have changed.
First tell you those people I talked.I guess you thought I had flirted with them.Actually I didn't .I have a lot of interests,so I know a lot of people who have same interest with me.But 皇冠官网，I only talked about those professional knowledge with them,not the topic of sex.If you only meant I don't talk with them about sex or love or something like that,I'm ok with that.But if what you meant is I can't talk with any other male ,I'm afraid that I can't do it.Everyone has his own social circle.I won't give up my normal life for you.
瓦伦蒂用了全部一个章节来解说女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干那件事（以及其余关于性的晋升）FEMINISTS DO IT BETTE昂Cora (AND OTHE猎豹CS6 SEX TIPS)》。
When I started out, each and every twist and turn I encountered, whether in the markets or in my life in general, looked really big and dramatic up close, like unique life-or-death experiences that were coming at me fast.
他直抒己见就本人炫目“作者在床的上面比你行，而那得归功于女权主义。”(I'm better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)
皇冠两性话题，Then I'm going to tell you those men who said love me.Indeed they said that ,but it is ture or not is quite a different matter.I'm not interested in them.
今世男权社会对女子有一种自相争辩的双重标准：一方面，女子在芸芸众生领受“守贞教育”，早上则在电视上收看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面，女孩被感化说婚前性行为是狼狈的，另一方面又报告您，你若想形成一名春假辣妹，你赶紧对着镜头宽衣解带吧！(When you're getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone 魏尔德 commercials at night, it's not exactly easy to develop a healthy sexuality. You're taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you'd better start making out for the camera.)
With time and experience, I came to see each encounter as “another one of those” that I could approach more calmly and analytically, like a biologist might approach an encounter with a threatening creature in the jungle: first identifying its species and then, drawing on his prior knowledge about its expected behaviors, reacting appropriately.
About that Indian boy,I know him earlier than you.So it happened long time ago.And if you don't like Indian people ,I won't talk with any Indian people.It is not a big deal.I respect you.
守贞文学家是那样来教育女人的：“你们的人体正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与先生发生性关系时，他剥去你的门面，含吮起来。那时说不定觉获得没有错，可可惜的是，他与你完事后，你们留给下壹位伴侣的正是衣冠不整，口水臭味的流毒。”("Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but unfortunately, when he's done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. ")
够耸人传闻的。可是女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提议的口号是：“笔者的处女膜作者做主！(Our Hymens, Ourselves )
Now I am going to say a long story about me.I really hope you could read it.